So as I mentioned in my introduction my little lady bug and I are moving in with her father. My parents are so thrilled but his parents couldn't be more mad. Sure were not married....yet...but why do people have to get so upset about things like that?? Our little girl only gets to see her father twice a week and thats it, and if she is still up when he leaves then she has a complete melt down. I sometimes have to pry her little hands off the screen door or pull her up off the floor and cuddle her because she wants to be with her father. We both want to live together for her sanity and I'm glad that we only have one more month.
His mom and I have never really gotten along because they never really approved of our relationship because he was so much older and we both had personal problems. She was even more disproving when they found out that we were going to have a little baby. But I have been trying to be respectful and appreciative, nice, loving, caring and so on to her for the past 4 1/2 years. But she doesn't reciprocate a whole lot. I just wish his mother could accept that we are a family and that we love one another.
The only reason that we have not gotten married is because were both in school, or I was then took a break. But he is and is working on his masters.....I am so deeply proud of that man...but once were done with school and have the money (My parents wont pay for it) well get married. I do love both of our families to the bottom of my heart, I just with people didnt always have to be so critical and judgmental. I mean this is the 21st century its quite common for people to live together and not be married. It is right??
Anyways. We are moving to Pembroke August first to a little student housing that has 2 bedrooms and 2 baths. Not sure if it will have a back yard or a front yard but we do have a large gate that we can use so she can play outside. Their is a park nearby and a little shopping center and I think a pool as well. I am so happy right now and have been packing and getting everything in order for the big move for the last month.
Everything is finally moving forward and well finally be a family!!! Well off to make dinner, going to try a new recipe from pinterest!!
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